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How to have sex

Sex can mean a lot of things, but for this purpose, it is defined as an act that involves a man inserting his erect penis inside the vagina of a woman. This happens when both partners are sexually attracted with one another usually after engaging in foreplay acts such as kissing, necking or cuddling. A good sign that both sides are ready for sex would be a man with its penis erect and women having a moist vagina.

        To find out what the right technique to follow when figuring out how to have sex, it would be best to understand first why people do it. There are several reasons why people engage in sexual relations from the physical to the goal based. Some of the physical reasons why people have sex would be for pleasure, relief from stress, pleasing your sex partner, sexual curiosity and of course, out of attraction to one another. Another reason would be for conceiving a baby. Let’s admit it: sex was created to allow men and women to procreate and populate the world. Other goal-based reasons would be the desire to become popular or improve social status or to even seek revenge. In the old days there were also other reasons why people had sex such as emotional (love, commitment, gratitude) and insecurity (raising self-esteem, preventing a partner from seeking sex elsewhere, feeling of duty, obligation and even pressure). But perhaps the most popular reason for having sex these days is a simple pleasure, or recreational sex. Rather than anything else people do it just to enjoy it, for fun.

So now that we know some of the reasons why people have sex, the next step would be to answer the question: how to have sex. Anyone can have sex, provided that both sides are in their proper age. But when you know how to have sex the right way, it could lead to a lifelong of sexual pleasure and satisfaction for both you and your partner so here are some techniques you can apply in order to achieve them. Arouse your partner’s sexual sensory prowess by blindfolding her eyes. This would create stimulating thoughts on her mind of what you might do (or not do) that can heighten her anticipation towards having good sex with you.

Trigger her other senses, asides the eyes, by teasing your partner using a feather or your tongue. Communication is another key to having good sex. Know your partner’s likes, dislikes, fantasies, and fetishes by talking about it before having sex. Giving your partner a massage allows stress and tension to be released while at the same time, they become relaxed and sexually stimulated. Role-playing is the ultimate turn-on for many people as this allows them to come out of their character and be someone else they fantasize. 

Role-playing classics such as teacher-student relations, boss-subordinate relations and the client-prostitute relations can definitely increase both of your libidos. If both you and your partner enjoy playing card games, why not hook him or her up with a strip poker game with conditions such as the winner providing sexual favors from the loser. Nothing can make your libido rise when you hear your partner talking dirty while at the same time engaged in various sex positions. And speaking of positions, you and your partner can get away from the monotony of doing the same sex positions over and over again.  Sex toys and dildos add a new dimension for those opting to know how to have sex. This allows couples to be creative and imaginative for sexual scenarios you and your partner can use to make sure to have everlasting great sex.